BradG

Hi all, first post so be gentle. Did a search and couldn't find the answer. We have a 2014 Kluger Grande with the rear DVD player, bought the car second hand so we don't have the remote or headphones (did it come with these??). My question is, how do you get a DVD to play?! Without the remote, am I screwed? The disc will read and load up the menu, but i can't select anything from the menu. The rear screen isn't touch screen (or doesn't seem to be) and from the front I can select "play" but it's not progressing from the menu screen. What am i doing wrong?? Many thanks in advance for the help!