OH my goodness !!!! ...JESUS !!! .. who said lap dance !! this so just went down the drain .... the deal is this ... There is a special dance ... and it is performed by silver members to new silver members !! ... as part of their induction to the silver membership arena !!! so Both mish and bec at minimium must be silvers by kiama for the silvers to perform the dance there... otherwise it will have to wait till the next appropriate time ! .. hhehehehheheheheh hahahah