Ahh yes, that grill is the Sportivo Accessories Grille (but they've put a Toyota logo on that picture); they aren't available anymore. I have searched high and low but can't find one.
However, you may get lucky and there is a RS Grille (for the US model, but will fit the Gen5 here) that looks very similar but is finished in chrome. If you don't like the chrome, nothing abit of paint won't fix.
With the headlights, on your one (pre-facelift) the indicator section is on the outer side of the lights, on the facelift ones the indicator section is on the inner side of the lights. I personally don't think it looks as good.