Sorry for the delay. Was just about to take photos then I got a call and had to dash out of the house for a second. Anyways, when you look at your fuse panel/distribution block, you will see this:
That empty socket on the far left is where you would usually find your fog light relay. Models without fog lights will have no relay. Mine is missing for photo purposes:
Insert spade terminal as shown and you get +12v even when the car is off:
This is a crimped spade connector (yellow is for the heavier gauge wire):
Narva are the main ones I use cause I like them, and you find these at Repco and other automotive places. Otherwise Jaycar have some, but I hate the quality of them.
And there you go. No cutting of the factory harness, easily removed, and fuse protected (fog light fuse).